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“The aim of the Prophetic Path course is to develop and build the character of each student on an individual basis so that he becomes someone who has the most beautiful relationship with his Creator, Allāh the Almighty and his Beloved Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, and become a means of mercy for all of the creation.“
Shaykh Ahmad Dabbāgh
(Director of Wiselife Academy)
Discipline and beautify your: Tongue, Eyes, Ears, Hands and other core elements of the body to experience its immediate effect
Step by step program to break free from bad habits, retrain your bodily actions and refine your conduct
Mind & Intellect
Learn and practise the science of positive thinking
Break the cycle of negativity – Gain freedom from negative thoughts and a toxic mentality
Learn to set realistic goals, overcome mental obstacles and live a purpose driven life
Heart & Soul
Control your own emotions, using them positively to ease stress & communicate effectively
Enhance your compassion towards others, overcome obstacles and defuse conflict
Learn to become Emotionally Intelligent
DISCOVER THE HEART OF ISLAM
The heart of the Islamic tradition is rooted on developing your connection with Allah through radical reformation of the human soul.
The concept of Seeratul Mustaqim
Purification of the Heart Course
Even a taste of some of the above can immediately have a positive impact on your life: enabling you to repair broken relationships; increase productivity; develop a healthy mindset whilst achieving everlasting success.
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- Guided daily meditations to nourish your soul
- Reflect on your day by calmly organizing your thoughts
and become centered
- Confidence building techniques and discover how to
release negative energy
- Stressless and stay motivated
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How can I feel peace if my heart is broken in a true relationship and how do I get over it, please give me some Islamic suggestions? It will help me in the future.
I hope this can help you Inshallah
Actions that help get over any relationship are as follows:
1. To stop messaging the person on all forms of communication.
2. To stop talking about them on all forms of communication (in person and online).
3. To stop thinking about them – this can only be done by diverting your attention elsewhere (Allah (azzawajal) and His Messenger (sallallahu alayhe wasallam) are best, but any lawful thought are fine too).
4.Every time the thought of them comes, busy yourself in other matters. Make a list of things to do to district you, when their thought comes e.g. exercise or walk, or nafl salah, or read a book, or recite Quran, or do zikr. Whatever works as a lawful distraction.
5. Create a new strong relationship elsewhere – the best is with Allah (azzawajal) and Rasoolullah (sallallahu alayhe wasallam) and the friends of Allah (azzawajal). After them any pious person who is good company. (Note: the concept works anywhere but if one creates an unlawful relationship, the first one (whether lawful or not) can be emotionally forgotten (detached) but the cycle will continue.
6. “Step out of yourself” – this means stop thinking about “me” and start thinking of others. Then help them, help anyone. Be of service to mankind.
Whenever a person has a problem, a simple solution is to help someone else who has a bigger problem. When you come back to your problem, your mind will see things in perspective (comparison) and yours will feel lighter therefore easier to overcome.
All 6 actions above have an element of difficulty in them. But there is peace on the other side. With this understanding it becomes easier to do. Choose 3 from from above to start with then gradually implement all 6 of them within 60 days.
Mindsets that help are below. Choose 1 and repeat it 10-20 times per day to have effect
1. “With time, everything heals… so I will let time pass”
2. “I am not the emotion. It is not me. Let it pass.”
3. “I embrace this pain of separation. I won’t fight it. Instead I will embrace it.”
4. “Only in the remembrance of Allah (azzawajal) does the heart find peace”. Remembrance here is deeper than simply repeating the name of Allah (azzawajal) only. It refers to the developing a special relationship between the servant and their Lord.
5. “The heartbreak I get from creation is a reminder that Allah (azzawajal) will never break my heart so I will only give it to Him. It was never meant for anyone else. They can never care for it as it should be cared for. Only He can so my Lord I give it to You.”
In addition, in your question you have mentioned a “true” relationship. “True” relationships can mean different things to different people. For some “true” may mean they felt what they think of as real love. But love is more than just a temporal feeling. For others who are new or young and haven’t had much experience will think their very first relationship is “true”. And for some they will be attached to a person and think this attachment is “true”. None of these are the real “true” relationships.
A “true” relationship in reality is one which is purely for the sake of Allah (azzawajal) (meaning His pleasure). Both parties don’t want any personal benefit from the other. This type of relationship is the purest in the entire world and it never breaks. If it outwardly breaks, there is a greater good in there and it is also for the sake of Allah (azzawajal) e.g. a teacher teaching a student a difficult lesson or a parent admonishing their child or a spouse unable to have children asking their spouse to leave them to marry someone who can. When the element of self sacrifice is present, this is a sign of true love. It should be done for the sake of Allah to be reward worthy and inshallah the reward will be attaining His friendship in return. That relationship is true and eternal.
Ustaad Usman Ahmed
Is financing a car allowed which if interest is added to the price? Also is it allowed to buy a watch on finance if there is interest charged as well?
Neither interest-based car nor watch financing is permissible, as the loans would fall under qard and the interest therefore under riba. And Allah knows best.
Q: Photos have been exchanged between both families, however it is not enough for the individuals to say yes too, are they able to see one another in person? (If both families meet at home) is it also possible for the individuals to speak privately in another room? To what extent can they see/meet one another?
It is not only allowed but encouraged to meet the person one is considering marrying. The prospective couple can speak but not have privacy (be in khalwa), so must be seen, though not necessarily heard at all time. I’m copying the relevant Hadith from sahih Muslim.
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported: I was in the company of Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) when there came a man and informed him that he had contracted to marry a woman of the Ansar. Thereupon Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: Did you cast a glance at her? He said: No. He said: Go and cast a glance at her, for there is something in the eyes of the Ansar.
Q: My question is if someone is going through wasawas so much that he repeats all five salat after Isha thinking none of them is correct and his life is becoming so difficult that every salat is taken as big test.
The person suffering from waswas should make intention to complete the act of worship or it’s precursor (wudu), and then go through the actions once only, make du’a for acceptance and then move on. Acts should not be repeated, as that is from the shayatin who wishes to make life difficult for the believers. So make intention, do it once, make du’a, move on and don’t think back, and definitely don’t repeat.
Yes, firstly there are the sunnah adkar, which you should learn. Second, there is the sunnah of sleeping in wudu. Thirdly, there are the Quranic recitations before sleep (ayatul kursi, the last two verses of al-Baqara and the last three surahs, recited thrice and each time blowing in hands and rubbing the body for protection). Fourthly, there is the sunnah of spitting over the left shoulder if scared by a dream, saying ta’awudh, and changing the side one has been sleeping on. Fifthly, you can try herbal supplements to increase gaba and alpha waves, such as L- theanine or local roots.
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